In the middle of the violent, chaotic Book of Judges sits a quiet masterpiece—the Book of Ruth. Like a flower growing in a battlefield, this four-chapter story shines with loyalty, kindness, and redemption during Israel’s darkest era.

The Book of Ruth tells the story of a Moabite widow who chooses loyalty over logic, a wealthy farmer who shows extraordinary kindness to a foreigner, and a bitter widow who discovers that God never abandoned her. But underneath this beautiful narrative lies something even more profound: a divine love story that points directly to Jesus Christ.

Whether you’re struggling with loss, questioning God’s providence, or searching for examples of radical loyalty, Ruth’s story offers timeless wisdom wrapped in one of Scripture’s most tender narratives.


Why the Book of Ruth Matters Today

A Timeless Story for Modern Hearts

Written: Approximately 1000 BC (during King David’s reign or shortly after)
Time Period Described: 1100s BC (during the time of the Judges)
Author: Unknown (possibly Samuel)
Literary Genre: Historical narrative with redemptive theology

Why It’s Unique:

  1. Only Two Books Named After Women (Ruth and Esther)
  2. Only Book Focused on a Gentile Convert becoming part of Israel
  3. Bridge Between Judges and Kings (ends with David’s genealogy)
  4. Most Beautiful Example of Hesed (Hebrew: חֶסֶד, loyal lovingkindness)
  5. Direct Link to Christ’s Lineage (Matthew 1:5)

Key Verse:

“Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.” — Ruth 1:16 (NIV)

This declaration of radical loyalty has been recited at countless weddings, but Ruth wasn’t speaking to a husband—she was speaking to her mother-in-law, choosing a life of poverty and uncertainty over comfort and familiarity.


Three Themes That Make Ruth Eternally Relevant

1. Loyalty (Hesed) in Relationships In an age of disposable commitments, Ruth models covenant loyalty that persists through loss, poverty, and uncertainty.

2. Providence in Pain When life seems random and cruel, Ruth reveals God’s invisible hand orchestrating redemption through everyday decisions.

3. Redemption Through the Kinsman-Redeemer Boaz’s role as goel (redeemer) is one of the clearest Old Testament pictures of Christ’s redemptive work.


Setting the Scene: Famine, Loss, and Bitter Beginnings

The Historical Context: Dark Times in Israel

Ruth 1:1 (ESV):

“In the days when the judges ruled there was a famine in the land…”

This single verse sets up the entire tragedy. During the Judges period (1375-1050 BC), Israel repeatedly:

  • Abandoned God
  • Worshiped idols
  • Experienced divine judgment (including famines)
  • Suffered oppression from enemies

The Irony: Bethlehem means “house of bread,” yet there was no bread. When God’s people reject Him, even “houses of bread” experience famine.


Elimelech’s Fatal Decision

The Family:

  • Elimelech (“My God is King”) — husband
  • Naomi (“Pleasant”) — wife
  • Mahlon (“Sick”) — son
  • Chilion (“Pining”) — son

The Choice: Elimelech took his family from Bethlehem (Judah) to Moab—a pagan nation descended from Lot’s incestuous relationship (Genesis 19:30-38). Moab was Israel’s enemy (Deuteronomy 23:3-6).

The Tragedy:

  • Elimelech died in Moab (Ruth 1:3)
  • His sons married Moabite women: Orpah and Ruth (Ruth 1:4)
  • Both sons died childless after ~10 years (Ruth 1:5)

Naomi’s Loss: In ancient Near Eastern culture, a woman without a husband or sons had:

  • No social status
  • No financial security
  • No hope for the future

The Story of Ruth: Four Chapters, Infinite Lessons

Chapter 1: Loyalty in Loss

Naomi’s Return (Ruth 1:6-7)

When Naomi heard that “the Lord had visited His people and given them food” in Bethlehem, she decided to return home. Her two daughters-in-law began the journey with her.

Naomi’s Release (Ruth 1:8-13): Three times Naomi urged them to return to Moab:

  1. First Appeal (v. 8-9): “Go back… may the Lord deal kindly with you”
  2. Second Appeal (v. 11-13): “I have no more sons for you to marry” (levirate marriage reference)
  3. Naomi’s Bitterness (v. 13): “The Lord’s hand has gone out against me”

Orpah’s Choice (Ruth 1:14):

“Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her.”

Orpah wasn’t wrong—she made the reasonable choice:

  • Return to her family
  • Chance to remarry
  • Familiar culture and religion

But Ruth chose radical loyalty over reasonable self-interest.


Ruth’s Declaration: The Most Beautiful Commitment in Scripture

Ruth 1:16-17 (ESV):

“Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you.”

The Seven Pledges:

  1. “Where you go I will go” — Geographic commitment
  2. “Where you lodge I will lodge” — Domestic solidarity
  3. “Your people shall be my people” — Social/cultural commitment
  4. “Your God my God”Spiritual conversion (most important)
  5. “Where you die I will die” — Lifelong dedication
  6. “There will I be buried” — Even beyond death
  7. Oath in God’s name — Sealed by divine witness

What Ruth Gave Up:

  • Her homeland
  • Her family
  • Her gods (Chemosh, the Moabite deity)
  • Any chance of remarrying in Moab
  • Financial security

What Ruth Gained:

  • The God of Israel
  • A place in redemptive history
  • An eternal legacy

Application: True commitment costs everything and promises nothing—except God Himself.


Arrival in Bethlehem: Empty and Bitter

Ruth 1:19-21:

“When they came to Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred… Naomi said to them, ‘Do not call me Naomi [Pleasant]; call me Mara [Bitter], for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty.'”

Naomi’s Theology: She correctly identified God’s sovereignty but incorrectly concluded He was against her. She couldn’t yet see that:

  • Ruth was God’s provision (not emptiness)
  • Her return was during barley harvest (v. 22)—God’s perfect timing
  • Redemption was already in motion

Life Lesson: We often misinterpret our circumstances when we’re in the middle of God’s redemptive plan.


Chapter 2: Providence in the Field

Ruth’s Initiative: Gleaning in Boaz’s Field

The Law of Gleaning (Leviticus 19:9-10): God commanded landowners to leave the edges of fields and dropped grain for the poor, widows, and foreigners to gather.

Ruth 2:2-3 (ESV):

“Let me go to the field and glean… So she set out and went and gleaned in the field after the reapers, and she happened to come to the part of the field belonging to Boaz.”

The “Coincidence”: The Hebrew literally reads: “her chance chanced upon”—emphasizing what appeared random but was actually divine providence.

Romans 8:28 Principle:

“We know that for those who love God all things work together for good.”

Ruth didn’t know about Boaz. She just obeyed God’s law and worked hard. God orchestrated the rest.


Boaz: The Model of Kindness

Who Was Boaz?

  • Wealthy landowner from Bethlehem
  • Descendent of Rahab (the Canaanite prostitute who hid the spies—Joshua 2)
  • Relative of Elimelech (Naomi’s deceased husband)
  • A man of valor (Ruth 2:1 ESV) or “man of standing” (NIV)

Boaz’s Character Revealed:

1. Godly Leadership (Ruth 2:4):

“Behold, Boaz came from Bethlehem. And he said to the reapers, ‘The Lord be with you!’ And they answered, ‘The Lord bless you!'”

His first words were a blessing—showing his spiritual priorities.

2. Attentiveness (Ruth 2:5-7): Boaz noticed Ruth and asked, “Whose young woman is this?”

The foreman reported:

  • She’s the Moabite who returned with Naomi
  • She asked permission to glean (humility)
  • She’s been working steadily since morning (diligence)

3. Protection and Provision (Ruth 2:8-9): Boaz told Ruth:

  • Stay in my field (protection)
  • Follow my young women (safety from harassment)
  • Drink from the water jars (provision)
  • Workers won’t touch you (security)

4. Extraordinary Kindness (Ruth 2:10-16): Ruth asked, “Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?”

Boaz replied:

“All that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been fully told to me… The Lord repay you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge!” — Ruth 2:11-12

The Wings Metaphor: Ruth came under God’s “wings” for refuge. Later, she’ll ask Boaz to spread his “wings” over her (Ruth 3:9)—a proposal of marriage using the same metaphor.

Boaz’s Secret Generosity (Ruth 2:15-16): He told his workers:

  • Let her glean among the sheaves (normally forbidden)
  • Pull out extra grain for her (hidden provision)
  • Don’t rebuke her

Result: Ruth gathered about an ephah (~30 pounds) of barley—10 times the normal daily amount.


Naomi’s Hope Rekindles

Ruth 2:19-20: When Naomi heard Ruth worked in Boaz’s field, she exclaimed:

“May he be blessed by the Lord, whose kindness has not forsaken the living or the dead! … The man is a close relative of ours, one of our redeemers.”

The Hebrew Word: GOEL (גֹּאֵל) Translated “kinsman-redeemer,” this person had the legal right and responsibility to:

  1. Redeem land sold due to poverty (Leviticus 25:25)
  2. Marry the widow of a deceased relative to produce an heir (Deuteronomy 25:5-10)
  3. Avenge blood if a relative was murdered (Numbers 35:19)

Naomi’s Shift:

  • Chapter 1: “I am empty… the Lord is against me”
  • Chapter 2: “The Lord’s kindness has not forsaken us”

Lesson: God’s providence often becomes clear in hindsight, not in the moment.


Chapter 3: Boldness at the Threshing Floor

Naomi’s Plan: A Risky Proposal

Ruth 3:1-4: Naomi instructed Ruth:

  1. Wash and anoint yourself (preparation)
  2. Put on your cloak (best garments)
  3. Go to the threshing floor at night
  4. Wait until Boaz finishes eating and lies down
  5. Uncover his feet and lie down
  6. He will tell you what to do

What Was Happening?

Cultural Context:

  • Threshing floors were where grain was separated from chaff
  • Workers often slept there to guard the harvest
  • This was a risky but legitimate proposal of marriage

Was This Improper? No. Naomi was following the levirate marriage custom (Deuteronomy 25:5-10), where a relative would marry a widow to preserve the family line.

But it required boldness. Ruth was:

  • A foreigner
  • A poor widow
  • Approaching a wealthy man at night

One wrong move could destroy her reputation.


Ruth’s Courage: The Midnight Proposal

Ruth 3:7-9:

“When Boaz had eaten and drunk, and his heart was merry, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain. Then she came softly and uncovered his feet and lay down. At midnight the man was startled and turned over, and behold, a woman lay at his feet! He said, ‘Who are you?’ And she answered, ‘I am Ruth, your servant. Spread your wings over your servant, for you are a redeemer.'”

“Spread your wings” = Proposal of Marriage

Ruth was asking Boaz to:

  • Fulfill his role as kinsman-redeemer
  • Marry her to preserve Elimelech’s family line
  • Provide security and inheritance

She used Boaz’s own words from Ruth 2:12—he had blessed her for coming under God’s “wings”; now she asks him to be God’s instrument of that blessing.


Boaz’s Response: Honor and Integrity

Ruth 3:10-13: Boaz was deeply moved:

“May you be blessed by the Lord, my daughter. You have made this last kindness greater than the first in that you have not gone after young men, whether poor or rich.”

Boaz’s Character Shines:

  1. He honored her initiative (“this kindness is greater”)
  2. He reassured her (“All my fellow townsmen know you are a worthy woman”)
  3. He was honest (“There is a redeemer nearer than I”)
  4. He protected her reputation (sent her home before dawn)
  5. He gave her provision (six measures of barley)

The Complication: There was a closer relative with first right of redemption. Boaz couldn’t act until that man either redeemed or declined.

Boaz’s Oath (Ruth 3:13):

“As the Lord lives, I will redeem you. Lie down until the morning.”

Application: Boaz models how godly men should respond to vulnerable women: with honor, protection, and integrity.


Chapter 4: Redemption at the Gate

The Legal Transaction

Ruth 4:1-2: Boaz went to the city gate (where legal matters were settled) and assembled ten elders as witnesses.

When the closer relative (unnamed, called “So-and-so” in Hebrew) arrived, Boaz presented the case.


The Choice: Land vs. Legacy

Ruth 4:3-4: Boaz: “Naomi is selling the parcel of land that belonged to Elimelech. If you will redeem it, redeem it. But if you will not, tell me.”

Closer Relative: “I will redeem it.”

But then Boaz added the catch (Ruth 4:5):

“The day you buy the field from the hand of Naomi, you also acquire Ruth the Moabite, the widow of the dead, in order to perpetuate the name of the dead in his inheritance.”

The Dilemma:

  • Redeeming the land alone = Investment that increases his estate
  • Redeeming Ruth too = First son would inherit the land in Elimelech’s name, not his own

Ruth 4:6:

“Then the redeemer said, ‘I cannot redeem it for myself, lest I impair my own inheritance. Take my right of redemption yourself, for I cannot redeem it.'”

The Unnamed Redeemer’s Choice: He chose self-interest over sacrificial love. He wanted the land’s benefit without the responsibility of raising an heir for another man’s name.

Contrast with Boaz: Boaz was willing to sacrifice his inheritance to redeem Ruth and preserve Elimelech’s name.


The Sandal Ceremony

Ruth 4:7-8:

“Now this was the custom in former times in Israel concerning redeeming and exchanging: to confirm a transaction, the one drew off his sandal and gave it to the other, and this was the manner of attesting in Israel. So when the redeemer said to Boaz, ‘Buy it for yourself,’ he drew off his sandal.”

Symbolism: Removing the sandal symbolized transferring the right to walk on the land (possession/ownership).


The Blessing of the Elders

Ruth 4:11-12: The elders and people at the gate blessed Boaz and Ruth:

“May the Lord make the woman, who is coming into your house, like Rachel and Leah, who together built up the house of Israel… May your house be like the house of Perez, whom Tamar bore to Judah, because of the offspring that the Lord will give you by this young woman.”

Why Mention Tamar?

  • Tamar (Genesis 38) was another foreign woman who entered Judah’s line through unusual circumstances
  • Her boldness preserved Judah’s lineage
  • Perez (her son) was an ancestor of Boaz

The blessing connected Ruth to Israel’s redemptive history.


The Birth of Obed: A New Beginning

Ruth 4:13:

“So Boaz took Ruth, and she became his wife. And he went in to her, and the Lord gave her conception, and she bore a son.”

The Women’s Blessing to Naomi (Ruth 4:14-15):

“Blessed be the Lord, who has not left you this day without a redeemer, and may his name be renowned in Israel! He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age, for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons, has given birth to him.”

“More than seven sons”: In a culture where sons were everything, this was the highest compliment imaginable for a daughter-in-law.


The Genealogy: A Shocking Conclusion

Ruth 4:17-22:

“The women of the neighborhood gave him a name, saying, ‘A son has been born to Naomi.’ They named him Obed. He was the father of Jesse, the father of David.”

The Line:

  • Obed → Jesse → King David → … → Jesus Christ

Matthew 1:5-6 (Jesus’ Genealogy):

“Salmon the father of Boaz by Rahab, and Boaz the father of Obed by Ruth, and Obed the father of Jesse, and Jesse the father of David the king.”

Shocking Inclusion: Jesus’ genealogy includes:

  • Rahab — Canaanite prostitute
  • Ruth — Moabite widow
  • Bathsheba — David’s adulterous relationship
  • Tamar — Judah’s daughter-in-law

Why? To show that God’s grace transcends ethnicity, social status, and sinful pasts. The Messiah came not just for “perfect Jews” but for all humanity.


The Main Characters: Portraits of Faith

Ruth: The Loyal Daughter-in-Law

Character Traits:

1. Loyalty (Hesed): Ruth’s commitment to Naomi transcended:

  • Cultural expectations
  • Religious differences
  • Personal comfort

2. Humility:

  • She asked permission to glean (Ruth 2:7)
  • Called herself Boaz’s “servant” (Ruth 2:13)
  • Accepted guidance from Naomi (Ruth 3:5)

3. Diligence:

  • Worked from morning until evening (Ruth 2:7)
  • Gathered 10x normal amount of grain (Ruth 2:17)
  • Did not rest in her responsibility

4. Courage:

  • Left her homeland
  • Approached Boaz at night (Ruth 3:6-9)
  • Risked rejection and shame

5. Faith:

  • Chose Naomi’s God over Moab’s gods (Ruth 1:16)
  • Trusted God’s providence (“happened to come”)
  • Believed in unseen redemption

Ruth’s Legacy:

  • Great-grandmother of King David
  • Ancestor of Jesus Christ
  • Model of covenant loyalty for all generations

How Ruth Points to Christ:

  • Gentile who became part of Israel = Christ brings Gentiles into God’s family
  • Chose God despite cost = Disciples leave all to follow Jesus
  • Redeemed through kinsman = We are redeemed through Christ

Naomi: From Bitter to Blessed

Character Arc:

Stage 1: Full (Ruth 1:1-5)

  • Happy marriage
  • Two sons
  • Life in “House of Bread”

Stage 2: Empty (Ruth 1:20-21)

  • Husband dead
  • Sons dead
  • “Call me Mara [Bitter]”
  • “The Lord has dealt bitterly with me”

Stage 3: Restored (Ruth 4:14-17)

  • Redeemer provided (Boaz)
  • Legacy preserved (Obed)
  • Grandson on her lap
  • Women bless: “Blessed be the Lord”

Lessons from Naomi:

1. Honest Lament is Biblical: Naomi didn’t pretend everything was fine. She poured out her bitterness to God—like the Psalmists.

2. God’s Providence Isn’t Always Clear in the Moment: Naomi thought she was “empty,” but Ruth (God’s provision) was right beside her.

3. God Redeems Even Our Wrong Choices: Elimelech’s decision to go to Moab was questionable, yet God brought redemption through it.

4. Bitterness Can Blind Us to God’s Blessings: Naomi didn’t initially recognize that Ruth’s loyalty was God’s grace.

Psalm 126:5-6:

“Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy! He who goes out weeping, bearing the seed for sowing, shall come home with shouts of joy, bringing his sheaves with him.”


Boaz: The Noble Kinsman-Redeemer

Character Qualities:

1. Kindness (Hesed): Boaz showed undeserved favor to Ruth, a foreign widow with no claim on him.

2. Integrity:

  • Honored the legal process (Ruth 4:1-6)
  • Protected Ruth’s reputation (Ruth 3:14)
  • Kept his word (Ruth 3:13)

3. Generosity:

  • Let Ruth glean freely (Ruth 2:8-9)
  • Pulled out extra grain for her (Ruth 2:15-16)
  • Gave her six measures of barley (Ruth 3:15)

4. Spiritual Leadership:

  • Greeted workers with “The Lord be with you” (Ruth 2:4)
  • Invoked God’s blessing on Ruth (Ruth 2:12)
  • Made oaths in God’s name (Ruth 3:13)

5. Sacrificial Love: Boaz was willing to impair his own inheritance to redeem Ruth and preserve another man’s name.

How Boaz Foreshadows Christ:

BoazChrist
Kinsman-redeemer (goel)Our Redeemer (Job 19:25)
Wealthy and willingRich in mercy, willing to save
Paid the pricePaid for our sins with His blood
Married the foreignerMarries the Church (Revelation 19:7-9)
Restored inheritanceRestores our eternal inheritance (1 Peter 1:3-4)
Gave rest to RuthGives us rest (Matthew 11:28)

Matthew 1:5 Significance: Boaz is mentioned in Jesus’ genealogy, showing that Christ’s lineage included Gentile converts and foreshadowed the inclusion of all nations.


Orpah: The Reasonable Choice

Often Overlooked, But Important:

Orpah’s Decision (Ruth 1:14-15):

“Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her. And Naomi said, ‘See, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law.'”

Was Orpah Wrong? No. Her choice was:

  • Reasonable — Return to family and potential remarriage
  • Blessed by Naomi — “May the Lord deal kindly with you” (Ruth 1:8)
  • Culturally expected — Most would have done the same

The Contrast:

  • Orpah chose the sensible path
  • Ruth chose the sacrificial path

The Lesson: Sometimes following God requires choosing loyalty over logic, faith over familiarity, and sacrifice over security.

Luke 9:62:

“No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.”

Application: Orpah isn’t condemned, but she’s not remembered. Ruth’s radical commitment earned her a place in redemptive history.


7 Profound Lessons from the Book of Ruth

1. Loyalty (Hesed) Is the Language of Covenant Love

The Hebrew Word: חֶסֶד (Hesed) Appears 3 times in Ruth (1:8; 2:20; 3:10) and 246 times in the Old Testament.

Meaning:

  • Loyal love
  • Covenant faithfulness
  • Lovingkindness
  • Grace that persists

Ruth’s Hesed:

  • Loyalty to Naomi despite personal cost (Ruth 1:16-17)

Boaz’s Hesed:

  • Kindness to Ruth beyond legal requirement (Ruth 2:8-16)

God’s Hesed:

  • Faithfulness to His people despite their unfaithfulness (Ruth 2:20)

Modern Application: In a culture of:

  • No-fault divorces
  • Disposable friendships
  • Convenient commitments

Ruth challenges us to practice covenant loyalty that says:

“Where you go I will go… nothing but death will separate us.”

Marriage Application: Ruth 1:16-17 is often read at weddings because it models the loyalty marriage requires—not to a spouse when they’re lovely, but when they’re in Moab, bitter, and broke.


2. God’s Providence Works Through Ordinary Obedience

Ruth 2:3:

“She happened to come to the part of the field belonging to Boaz.”

The Paradox:

  • From Ruth’s perspective: Coincidence
  • From God’s perspective: Providence

What Ruth Did:

  • Obeyed God’s law about gleaning (Leviticus 19:9-10)
  • Worked diligently (Ruth 2:7)
  • Stayed humble (Ruth 2:10)

What God Did:

  • Guided her steps to Boaz’s field
  • Moved Boaz’s heart to show favor
  • Orchestrated circumstances for redemption

Proverbs 16:9:

“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”

Application: You don’t need to figure out God’s entire plan—just obey the next step:

  • Go to work faithfully
  • Serve your family diligently
  • Honor your commitments consistently

God orchestrates the rest.


3. Kindness to Others Is Kindness to God

Ruth 2:11-12: Boaz said to Ruth:

“All that you have done for your mother-in-law… has been fully told to me… The Lord repay you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the Lord.”

The Principle: Your loyalty to others doesn’t go unnoticed by God.

Matthew 25:40:

“As you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.”

Modern Application:

  • Caring for aging parents
  • Supporting a struggling friend
  • Mentoring a younger believer
  • Serving “unimportant” people

These acts are seen and rewarded by God, even when no one else notices.


4. True Conversion Means Total Commitment

Ruth 1:16:

“Your people shall be my people, and your God my God.”

Ruth Didn’t Just:

  • Add Yahweh to her pantheon of gods
  • Keep Moabite identity while dabbling in Judaism
  • Make a partial commitment

Ruth Fully:

  • Abandoned Chemosh (Moabite god)
  • Embraced Yahweh exclusively
  • Identified with Israel completely

2 Corinthians 5:17:

“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

Application: Genuine conversion isn’t:

  • Adding Jesus to your life
  • Keeping one foot in the world

It’s dying to yourself and being raised to new life in Christ (Romans 6:4).


5. God Redeems Outsiders and Outcasts

Ruth’s Background:

  • Moabite — descended from incest (Genesis 19:37)
  • Widow — socially vulnerable
  • Poor — reduced to gleaning
  • Foreigner — ethnic outsider

God’s Response:

  • Placed her in Boaz’s field
  • Made her David’s great-grandmother
  • Included her in Messiah’s genealogy

Romans 5:8:

“God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Application: No one is:

  • Too broken for God’s grace
  • Too far gone for redemption
  • Too foreign for God’s family

If you feel like an outsider, Ruth’s story is for you.


6. Bitter Seasons Don’t Mean God Has Abandoned You

Naomi’s Complaint (Ruth 1:20-21):

“The Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty.”

What Naomi Couldn’t See:

  • Ruth’s loyalty was God’s provision
  • Her return timing was harvest season (God’s timing)
  • Boaz was waiting (God’s plan)
  • A grandson was coming (God’s restoration)

Job 23:10:

“He knows the way that I take; when He has tried me, I shall come out as gold.”

Application: When life feels bitter:

  • God hasn’t abandoned you (Hebrews 13:5)
  • You can’t see the whole picture (Isaiah 55:8-9)
  • Redemption may be closer than you think

7. The Kinsman-Redeemer Points to Christ

Qualifications of the Goel (Kinsman-Redeemer):

  1. Related by blood (Leviticus 25:25, 47-49)
  2. Able to pay the price (Leviticus 25:26-27)
  3. Willing to redeem (Ruth 3:13; 4:6)

How Christ Fulfills This:

RequirementHow Christ Fulfills
Related by bloodBecame fully human (Hebrews 2:14-17)
Able to paySinless, therefore qualified (2 Corinthians 5:21)
Willing to redeem“Not my will, but yours” (Luke 22:42)

The Closer Redeemer Who Refused (Ruth 4:6): Represents the Law—which could identify the problem but couldn’t redeem us (Romans 8:3).

Boaz’s Redemption: Represents Christ—who willingly:

  • Paid the price (His life)
  • Married the bride (the Church)
  • Restored the inheritance (eternal life)

1 Peter 1:18-19:

“You were ransomed… not with perishable things such as silver or gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot.”


Ruth and Christ: Types and Shadows of Redemption

The Gospel Hidden in Ruth

Element in RuthFulfillment in Christ
Famine in BethlehemSpiritual famine in humanity
Elimelech leaves “House of Bread”Adam’s exile from Eden
Death and lossConsequence of sin (Romans 6:23)
Ruth (Gentile) clings to Naomi (Jew)Gentiles grafted into Israel (Romans 11:17-24)
Ruth gleans in Boaz’s fieldWe come to Christ for provision (John 6:35)
Boaz shows undeserved favorGrace through faith (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ruth proposes at midnightChurch calls out to Christ (Revelation 22:17)
Boaz redeems at the gateChrist’s public redemption at Calvary
Closer redeemer refusesLaw cannot save (Galatians 3:11)
Boaz pays the priceChrist paid our debt (Colossians 2:14)
Marriage and new lifeUnion with Christ (2 Corinthians 11:2)
Obed (son) restores NaomiChrist restores what sin stole
Ruth in Messiah’s lineageGentiles included in God’s family

The Wedding Feast: Ultimate Fulfillment

Revelation 19:7-9:

“Let us rejoice and exult and give Him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His Bride has made herself ready… Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.”

Ruth and Boaz’s wedding points to the ultimate wedding:

  • Christ (Bridegroom)
  • Church (Bride—formerly Gentile outsiders)
  • Redemption completed
  • Eternal feast celebrated

How to Apply Ruth’s Loyalty to Your Life Today

1. Practice Covenant Loyalty in Relationships

Ruth 1:16-17 Challenge: Write your own declaration of loyalty to:

  • Your spouse
  • Your parents
  • Your church
  • Your friends

Example: “Where life takes you, I will follow. Your struggles will be my struggles. Your joys will be my joys. Your God will be my God. I commit to you, for better or worse, until death.”


2. Trust God’s Providence in “Coincidences”

Reflection Questions:

  • Where have you seen God’s “hidden hand” in your life?
  • What “coincidence” might actually be divine appointment?

Action Step: Keep a Providence Journal—record moments when God’s guidance became clear in hindsight.


3. Show Hesed to Outsiders

Who are the “Ruths” in your life?

  • Immigrants
  • Widows
  • Single parents
  • Those from different backgrounds

James 1:27:

“Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction.”

Practical Ways:

  • Invite someone to church
  • Provide meals for struggling families
  • Mentor someone younger
  • Be generous beyond obligation

4. Embrace God as Your Kinsman-Redeemer

If you’ve never trusted Christ:

1. Acknowledge Your Need: Like Ruth, you’re spiritually poor, unable to redeem yourself.

2. Come to the Redeemer:

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28

3. Trust His Payment: Christ already paid your debt at Calvary. Accept His redemption.

Romans 10:9:

“If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.”


5. Finish Faithfully Like Ruth

Ruth’s Character Throughout:

  • Chapter 1: Loyal in loss
  • Chapter 2: Diligent in work
  • Chapter 3: Courageous in faith
  • Chapter 4: Blessed in obedience

2 Timothy 4:7:

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”

Application: Don’t just start well—finish well. Let your loyalty to God and others mark your entire life story.


Frequently Asked Questions About the Book of Ruth

Was it appropriate for Ruth to approach Boaz at night?

Yes. Ruth was following the levirate marriage custom (Deuteronomy 25:5-10).

Key Points:

  • Naomi’s plan was culturally appropriate for proposing marriage
  • Boaz responded with honor and integrity (Ruth 3:11)
  • Ruth’s reputation was protected (Ruth 3:14)
  • “Uncovering feet” was not sexual—it was symbolic

Boaz’s Response (Ruth 3:11):

“Do not fear… all my fellow townsmen know that you are a worthy woman.”

This confirms it was an honorable proposal, not improper.


Why is Ruth, a Moabite, in Jesus’ genealogy?

Three Reasons:

1. Grace Over Ethnicity: Jesus came to save all nations, not just ethnic Jews (Galatians 3:28).

2. Faith Over Heritage: Ruth’s conversion made her part of God’s people (Ruth 1:16).

3. Foreshadowing the Church: Just as Ruth (Gentile) was grafted into Israel, Gentile believers are grafted into God’s family (Romans 11:17-24).

Matthew’s Purpose: Including Ruth (and Rahab, Tamar, Bathsheba) shows that Jesus’ lineage included:

  • Gentiles
  • Sinners
  • Women (unusual for genealogies)

The Message: God’s grace reaches everyone.


What does “kinsman-redeemer” mean?

Hebrew: גֹּאֵל (Goel)

Three Main Responsibilities:

1. Redeem Property (Leviticus 25:25): If a relative lost land due to poverty, the goel could buy it back.

2. Redeem Persons (Leviticus 25:47-49): If a relative sold themselves into slavery, the goel could purchase their freedom.

3. Marry the Widow (Deuteronomy 25:5-10): To produce an heir and preserve the family name.

How Christ Is Our Goel:

  • Redeems us from sin’s slavery (1 Peter 1:18-19)
  • Restores our inheritance (1 Peter 1:3-4)
  • Marries us (the Church is His bride—Revelation 19:7)

What happened to Naomi after Obed was born?

Ruth 4:14-17:

“He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age, for your daughter-in-law who loves you… has given birth to him. Then Naomi took the child and laid him on her lap and became his nurse.”

Naomi’s Restoration:

  • From “empty” to “full”
  • From “bitter” to “blessed”
  • From “childless” to “nurse of a grandson”

The same God who allowed her suffering orchestrated her restoration.


Is the Book of Ruth historically accurate?

Yes. Several indicators:

1. Cultural Details Match the Period:

  • Levirate marriage customs
  • Gleaning laws
  • Gate transactions
  • Sandal ceremony

2. Geographic Accuracy:

  • Bethlehem, Moab locations precise
  • Agricultural timing (barley harvest) accurate

3. Genealogical Verification:

  • Links to King David confirmed (1 Samuel 16:1; 17:12)
  • Included in Chronicles (1 Chronicles 2:11-12)
  • Cited in Jesus’ genealogy (Matthew 1:5)

4. Archaeological Support:

  • Inscriptions confirm names like Elimelech, Boaz were common
  • Economic conditions match the Judges period

What’s the main message of Ruth?

Four Core Truths:

1. Loyal Love (Hesed) Reflects God’s Character Ruth and Boaz’s kindness mirrors God’s covenant faithfulness.

2. God’s Providence Works in Ordinary Lives Through Ruth’s simple obedience, God accomplished extraordinary redemption.

3. Redemption Requires a Kinsman-Redeemer Boaz foreshadows Christ, who paid the price to redeem us.

4. Grace Includes All Nations Ruth (Moabite) in Messiah’s line proves salvation is for everyone.

Romans 11:32:

“For God has consigned all to disobedience, that He may have mercy on all.”


Final Reflection: Your Story Is Part of God’s Story

The Book of Ruth reminds us that no life is insignificant in God’s redemptive plan. Ruth probably didn’t know her loyalty would place her in Messiah’s lineage. She just made one faithful choice after another.

Your faithful choices today are weaving into God’s eternal story:

  • The kindness you show to a stranger
  • The loyalty you display in hardship
  • The diligence you bring to ordinary work
  • The courage you muster in dark moments

These aren’t wasted. God is working all things together for His glory and your good.


Closing Prayer

“Heavenly Father, thank You for the beautiful story of Ruth—a story of loyalty, providence, and redemption.

Like Ruth, I choose today to say: ‘Where You go, I will go. Your people will be my people. Your way will be my way.’ Give me the courage to follow You even when the path is uncertain.

Like Naomi, I confess there are times I’ve felt empty and bitter. Help me trust that even in my darkest seasons, You are weaving redemption I cannot yet see.

Like Boaz, make me a person of hesed—showing loyal, sacrificial love to those You place in my path. Use me as Your instrument of grace to outsiders and outcasts.

And above all, thank You for Jesus—my true Kinsman-Redeemer who paid the price I could never pay, who gives me an inheritance I could never earn, and who will one day present me as His spotless Bride.

May my life, like Ruth’s, point others to You. In Jesus’ redeeming name, Amen.”

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